Thursday, May 27, 2004
Well it was an emotionally exhausting day dealing w/asshat's antics and trying to rise above it... Having his "skank" call me back when I call to see why he's not were he said he would meet me to give me the child support this morning is low... And then later when he finally decides he can talk to me and calls me back he MUST tell me that he was "getting laid"!! That's great dear - better her then me and btw I could careless if, when or where you dip your dick - just pay the child support!!!! Then of course we get into the crap about his ability to pay and his priorities which led to a parting comment about taking him to court and my response of "I will!" So now I have to visit the courts on my next day off to see how/what to do to get his paycheck garnished... But I have survived the day...
Coming home was a little tiring as Dilen didn't nap today and was super cranky the first 20 min home but he went to bed early and things are quiet... Deven is being a character and saying silly things which are really making me smile.... He wrapped up in a blanket and when I called his name I hear from under the blanket "Deven can't come to the table right, please leave a message... BEEP" Just the sort of funny I needed tonight... Now we are working on our homework... Of course now we are fighting to get 9 easy math problems done as Deven is goofing off and screwing around being overly silly instead of just answering the questions... The boys and I are going to the fair on Sunday for bracelet night but only if Deven gets all his homework done and has a good report from school... Things are SLOWLY getting better at school now that we are on the 2nd week of not seeing asshat...
Deven hurt a little boy's feelings at school today - the little boy is physically handicap and Deven pointed out that Vismay couldn't stand up when they were all going to do so... Ok so he shouldn't have said it - pointing out the obvious in a way that I am sure was like a tease but kids' don't have tact sometimes - I did speak to Deven about it... Vismay is special because his legs are special but it's not nice to point such things out like that.. *sigh* Will it never end... His notes home say the behavior of not sitting still, calling out, yelling at adults, not cooperating to do work, etc continue but the work comes home complete and we have been doing almost all our homework for the most part... With some sweat and tears for sure but it gets done... Mom asked if Dev's teacher is qualified/educated to bring out the "best" in the students... GOOD question as it's something I have often wondered myself lately - yes perhaps she's educated to teach physically/mentally handicapped but emotionally handicapped children?? I am not so sure she's capable of really dealing w/Deven and other such students properly!!! But we have about 15 school days left so we will tough it out... Next year we will start the fight over again w/a new teacher but I have some info coming regarding Special Ed Advocates and such that I will be exploring this summer...
Momma is tired and has PMS we are all going to be early tonight!!! Til next time...
Coming home was a little tiring as Dilen didn't nap today and was super cranky the first 20 min home but he went to bed early and things are quiet... Deven is being a character and saying silly things which are really making me smile.... He wrapped up in a blanket and when I called his name I hear from under the blanket "Deven can't come to the table right, please leave a message... BEEP" Just the sort of funny I needed tonight... Now we are working on our homework... Of course now we are fighting to get 9 easy math problems done as Deven is goofing off and screwing around being overly silly instead of just answering the questions... The boys and I are going to the fair on Sunday for bracelet night but only if Deven gets all his homework done and has a good report from school... Things are SLOWLY getting better at school now that we are on the 2nd week of not seeing asshat...
Deven hurt a little boy's feelings at school today - the little boy is physically handicap and Deven pointed out that Vismay couldn't stand up when they were all going to do so... Ok so he shouldn't have said it - pointing out the obvious in a way that I am sure was like a tease but kids' don't have tact sometimes - I did speak to Deven about it... Vismay is special because his legs are special but it's not nice to point such things out like that.. *sigh* Will it never end... His notes home say the behavior of not sitting still, calling out, yelling at adults, not cooperating to do work, etc continue but the work comes home complete and we have been doing almost all our homework for the most part... With some sweat and tears for sure but it gets done... Mom asked if Dev's teacher is qualified/educated to bring out the "best" in the students... GOOD question as it's something I have often wondered myself lately - yes perhaps she's educated to teach physically/mentally handicapped but emotionally handicapped children?? I am not so sure she's capable of really dealing w/Deven and other such students properly!!! But we have about 15 school days left so we will tough it out... Next year we will start the fight over again w/a new teacher but I have some info coming regarding Special Ed Advocates and such that I will be exploring this summer...
Momma is tired and has PMS we are all going to be early tonight!!! Til next time...
